It’s an intellectual concept, an idea, a belief, and perhaps most accurately, a word for identity some people use, usually to identify when they or others have not had certain sexual experiences. What those experiences are vary, because not everyone has or uses the same definition of this word. All people also don’t share the same experiences or definitions of sex , or certain physical activities which are sometimes sex, but aren’t other times, in large part because any activity which can be sex can also be rape or other kinds of abuse . Too, a definition of virginity or partnered sex based in something physical, being done to or with the body without accounting for everyone’s motives and feelings could not only be sex or rape, it could also be describing things that can be part of in sexual healthcare, bathing, grooming, itching (literally, not figuratively), childbirth, various kinds of injuries, curiosity, or masturbation . For a very long time, there was a fairly gl